I know of many trans people who say... I'm a woman now. But just by thinking that shows that it is not true, we are trans and we will always be trans. Whether we transition or not or detransition... that gender dysphoria bug bit us in the ass.
I am writing this to say gender is a spectrum and we (I include everyone) move back and forth on that spectrum, it is not a spot fixed in time... we are human, we are a product of Mother Nature. And Mother Nature is a trickster.
Each of us is unique.
The conservatives make a big thing out of detransitoning and I what's the big deal? So they detransitioned so what.
We each are on this planet and trying to do the best we can... life is hard enough without some a**hole telling us what to do. We might go down a road and realize that it is not for us. So? What's the big deal.
The Republicans like to parade their pet detransitioner saying how horrible it was, nobody forced you, you made the decision all by yourself. Get over it an move on!
I made a horrible mistake... but I got over it. My mistake was in not buy my brother's half of the New Hampshire cottage. But I still whack myself in the head once in a while when I think about it. So?
People get married and get divorced while others it is "until death do us part" does that mean that we should ban marriages? How many tines have you been at a wedding and thought... that marriage is not going to work, but do we stand up and shout "Stop the marriage!"
So you transitioned and it wasn't right for you, but that doesn't mean that it is not right for others.
So the moral to this post is... We are unique and are only doing the best we can.

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