Tuesday, August 31, 2010

I Remember When – The 1955 Hurricane

There are hurricane watches all up and down the east coast today and the latest forecast has hurricane Elaine Earl off the New England coast Friday night. The first hurricane that I remember is the 1955 hurricane, Connie or it could have been Diane (they struck five days apart) and what stands out in my memory was how worried my parents were that day.

We were up in a cottage that we rented in New Hampshire when we heard about the hurricane (we were probably at the cottage that we rented on Lake Winnisquam and I was almost 7 years old) and at the time; we owned two houses, one down in Milford and the other in the town where I live now. We were in the process of moving and we still had both houses. In New Hampshire, we had high winds and heavy rains and a number of the roads were closed and it was worst the closer that you got to Connecticut.

I remember my father on the phone talking to the state police about how to get back home to Milford, we had to go north and over to Vermont and New York. In New York we drove down the Taconic Parkway and then over the Merit Parkway, crossing the Housatonic river in Stratford on one of the few bridges across the Housatonic that was passable. Our house in Milford was on a high bluff next to the river. I remember looking down at the river and seeing all the debris piled up on its banks, the little marina was gone, just the piling remained. There was still flotsam coming down the river and we were told that there were coffins from a cemetery up river that was washed away and the coffins had floated down the river.

Later, we took a trip up river to visit friends and family. My mother had family in Waterbury and we visited them. I remember seeing most of Waterbury destroyed from the floodwater, there are photographs and an article about the storm damage in Waterbury here. After we left Waterbury was drove up to Winsted. The whole center of the town was washed away, you can read their stories here.

Now when you drive around the Farmington, Naugatuck and Housatonic River valleys, if you know where to look you can still see the destruction that the hurricane caused (In New Hartford, there is the remains of dam that broke. In Unionville, the “Rails to Trails” path follows the old railroad tracks that were washed away.). Many of the flood control dams in the watersheds are a result of the ’55 Hurricane. There were other hurricanes that have hit Connecticut, but for me the benchmark is Hurricane Diane, they all will be compared to that.

Update 8/24/12: Added photograph, links to the state library & NOAA and hurricane Connie

Monday, August 30, 2010

Manic Monday #220

Lisa’s Manic Monday #220



What are the values you cherish even though they may run counter to societal values?
I think my values are the same as societal values, treat everyone with respect and dignity.

Mondays make me _feel that it is just another day when you are retired__.

If you were to publish a book about yourself, what would you title it?
It's a mixed up, muddle up, shook up world.

Sunday, August 29, 2010

Saturday Six – Episode 333

Patrick’s Place Saturday Six – Episode 333

1. How old were you when you first started thinking seriously about what you wanted to do as a career?
I think it was around my freshman or junior year in high school. I remember when I was in class when I answered a question about what we wanted to do when we graduated from high school and I said an electrical engineer. The teacher chided me say I wasn’t smart enough to be an engineer… well in 2007 I retired after 35 years in electronics and of those 25 as a supervisor of a electronic test department.

2. How old were you when you built your first long-term friendship (even if the friendship is currently no longer intact)?

Second grade, I met a friend who shared my love of science. I have hardy heard from him once I transitioned.

3. Of the people you consider friends, how long is your longest-lasting friendship?
Well, that is a hard question for me to answer; I have to divide it into pre- and post- transition. My pre-transition friends said that they will still be friends but the Christmas cards have stopped coming, I have been invited to only one party since I transitioned. my post-transition friends I see all the time.

4. When is the last time you spoke to this person either by phone, email or online?
Pre-transition – 2008 when he was in an accident. Post-transition last week.


5. Take the quiz: What stage of development are you in?




You Are In Stage II



Even though you are far from being an actual toddler, you are in the toddler stage of development.
You are still figuring out how to be autonomous and independent in this world.
Sometimes you have trouble just being yourself. You can be a bit ashamed of who you are.
You struggle with impulsive and compulsive behavior. Willpower is a struggle for you.


6. The last question in the quiz asked which trait described you when you’re at your best. Which trait would you describes you at your worst?
A worrier.

I thought the whole quiz was for teens, with questions like the first question “Right now you are have trouble: Figuring out the meaning in life” All through out life you are trying to figure out the meaning of life and it is even more true once you retire. Or question three about when you feel bad you, they don’t have any positive answers like shrug it off and move on.

Saturday, August 28, 2010

Saturday 9: Little Miss Can't Be Wrong

Crazy Sam’s Saturday 9: Little Miss Can't Be Wrong

1. Who was the last person you dealt with that felt that they could never be wrong?
I not going to name manes, but yes I do know a person like that.

2. Tell us about one person who is the most like you.

There is no one like me in the whole world, I am a unique.

3. What is something you really want right now?
To win the lottery.

4. What are you doing this weekend?
Going to a support group today and then to visit a friend tomorrow.

5. Are you in a good mood? If yes, Why?
No, school starts in two weeks and my internship the following week. It is going to be hard to get back into the grove again.

6. Do you have an ex that you are pretty sure thinks about you a lot?
Nope, no ex.

7. What's one thing you wish you could do but can't?
Win the lottery.

8. What's one trait you hate in a person?
Constant talking and monopolizing the conversation.

9. What's one thing you like to do alone?

Read.

Friday, August 27, 2010

Friday Fill-ins #191

Janet’s Friday Fill-ins #191

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1. You do your thing; I do mine and sometimes _and sometimes well see eye to eye_.

2. _Starting my internship in a couple of weeks_ is what's been on my mind on and off all day.

3. Remember when _is something that I have been doing a lot lately_.

4. _Lobster, chocolate and strawberries_ are three of my favorite obsessions :-)

5. During the last year _there has some highs and lows in my life_

6. _Looking at old family pictures_ puts a smile on my face.

7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to _going to my favorite coffee shop_, tomorrow my plans include _going to a support group_ and Sunday, I want to _maybe visit some friends_!

Thursday, August 26, 2010

My Story Part – 42 In Pictures

A few weeks ago I talked about cameras and the trans-community, well I have been going over some old pictures from when I first started going out to meetings. So I thought it would be cool to see how I progressed over time (it also got me out of a lot of writing.)…

The first picture down “Memory Lane” is from 1998, I was up our cottage on the deck by the water…

This picture is of me was taken in 1999 as I was getting ready to go out to a Connecticut Outreach Society’s meeting. It was from one of the first meetings that I ever attended…
The very first time in a public place was when I attended the 2000 COS Banquet…
In 2001, I was back out on my deck up at the lake…
In 2002, I was at the COS information table at the True Colors conference…
Also in 2002, I attended a First Event conference in Boston...
This picture was from the COS Banquet in 2003…
This picture is at my house at a 2004 New Year Eve Party, I just love the expression on my face! I wonder what I was Drinking.
Moving on to 2004, this picture was from the Real Arts Way’s Creative Cocktail Hour web-site…
I attended the Imperial Sovereign Court of All of Connecticut fundraiser at Chez Est in 2005…Moving on along to 2007, this picture was also from the Real Arts Way’s Creative Cocktail Hour and it was taken by Deja…
This picture was taken at the Northampton Pride in May of 2008; it was a cold and rainy day…
This picture was taken at Lobby Day in April of 2009. We were joking around at the podium in the hearing room that we had used for the Lobby Day…
And that brings us up to the picture taken by Stana last week when we dinned out before we went to the Real Arts Way’s Creative Cocktail Hour…
I think you can see the progression of my transition, from the shy girl just coming out to the confident woman who emerged.

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

I'm a Woman with Male Chromosomes

I'm a Woman with Male Chromosomes
By Sophie Moura
Marie Claire

The year I was in fifth grade, I saw a television commercial for tampons. Like most 10-year-olds, I'd never heard of a tampon. But when I asked my mom what one was, she started crying.

How do you tell your daughter that she's never going to need tampons? That she won't get her period or have babies, and that those things are the least of what sets her apart?

From the outside, there was no sign that the little kid watching TV in a suburb of Pittsburgh was so different. I've always been girly — obsessed with dresses, sparkles, and the color pink, donning felt poodle skirts for Halloween and loving makeup.

What isn't obvious is that I have a rare condition called androgen insensitivity syndrome, or AIS. I was born with XY chromosomes, the combination found in boys. With AIS, an XY embryo doesn't respond to the crucial hormones that tell the penis and scrotum to form. At the earliest stage of life, my body missed those signals, and I developed as a girl, with a clitoris and vulva. But what's inside me doesn't match.

My parents learned this when I was 6. That year, I collapsed in the shower with a painful lump in my groin. Convinced I had a hernia, my parents, both doctors, rushed me to the hospital. But when surgeons operated (a hernia is tough to X-ray and needs to be fixed surgically), there was no twisted loop of intestine behind that bump. It was a testicle that had started descending. Across my abdomen, they found another one. The upper portion of my vagina, and my cervix, uterus, and fallopian tubes were missing.
[...]
That year, my sister came home from school with a biology project. Everyone in her class was assigned a condition to research, and she got AIS.

"Mom and Dad, it sounds a lot like Katie," she said at dinner one night. "And there's a woman with Mom's name on the support group website."
[...]
A month after that, we were holed up in his family's home near campus. I'd told two previous boyfriends about my AIS, so I launched into my usual spiel. Midway through, Sam stopped me — he already knew. A track teammate had approached him in the locker room after practice and said, "I heard you're dating Katie Baratz. Is it true she's really a guy?" Sam had known I'd tell him when I was ready.
[...]
Ultimately, I want to be an advocate for people like me. It's hard to convince doctors to change how they handle such cases if you're not their peer, so I'm in med school, and getting a master's in bioethics. I hope my degrees will give me street cred in the medical community, since this is what I'm meant to be doing. Talking about tampons doesn't have to lead to tears.
Read the whole article...its beautiful.

FEAR, HATE & BIGOTRY

I agree with what Keith Olbermann is saying 100%. We need to stop this campaign of fear, hate and bigotry. We need to stop the drumming. We need to stop the mob mentality. We need to stop driving this wedge between us.



Republicans = Hate
Republicans = Fear
Republicans = Bigotry

Hate of Muslims
Fear of the Brown man
Bigotry against homosexuals and transgender people

The Republicans are using the Muslim Culture Center as a hot button issue to drum up voters in this fall’s elections. The center has been in planning for years, but now it is raised as an issue by the Republicans, Fox news and other conservative talk show host. Let us remember that our battle is with Al Qaeda and not with Muslims. When we make Muslims our enemy, we are playing right into the hands of Al Qaeda who are trying to make this a war against religion and not against terrorism.

Look at the ad that the GOP is running, it is purely inflammatory.



In a opinion piece in the Hartford Courant last Sunday, titled “Religious Wrongs: Demonization Leads To Persecution” the author, Atif Quraishi said,
Is it really about the Muslim cultural center proposed near Ground Zero in New York? About being sensitive to "hallowed ground"? I don't think so. The cultural center was merely an excuse to let loose the hate that has always been there. Bigotry is spreading and people are spewing hate so calmly and freely that it is scary.

People, powerful people — those who have influence over others. Those with followers: Newt, Hannity, O'Riley, Beck, Palin, my God! These are people with millions of followers. There are leaders emerging, leaders who are gathering these fearful and hate-filled masses and using powerful words to control them. Sound familiar?
I am opposed to the use of the hate and fear as a wedge to drive this country apart. I think it was a bad choice to build the culture center there, but the rhetoric that is being used is stirring up hate and bigotry for the sole purpose of getting votes in the fall election.

Ask yourself why is immigration an issue right now? When illegal immigration is actually declining, it is lower then when Bush was in office. So why is it an issue now! Could it be because a Democrat are in office? In another opinion piece, this time in the Arizona Republican, Gregory Rodriguez wrote back in July that,
Despite the heightened rhetoric and the bloodcurdling vitriol surrounding the issue, illegal immigration has actually declined significantly over the past few years. While journalists like to characterize the anger over immigration as a response to facts on the ground - i.e., people are inundated and incensed - the numbers don't bear them out.

In fact, the opposite is true. According to a February report by the Department of Homeland Security, the number of illegal immigrants living in the United States actually dropped by a whopping 1 million between 2008 and 2009, which amounts to the sharpest decrease in 30 years. It was the second year of declining numbers.

Likewise, the Border Patrol reports that apprehensions are down by more than 60 percent since 2000, to 550,000 last year, the lowest number in 35 years, even though the border is more tightly controlled than ever. As William Finnegan wrote in last week's New Yorker, "The southern border, far from being unsecured, is in better shape than it has been for years - better managed and less porous."

And there's more. Despite the drumbeat about hordes of undocumented Mexicans who have come north to take our jobs, consider this: According to the Pew Hispanic Center, between 2005 and 2008, the number of Mexican migrants arriving in the U.S. actually declined by 40 percent.
Why has immigration become an issue? Why are they stirring the fires of xenophobia? It is simply for VOTES!

There has been talk about amending the 14th Amendment to stop waves of pregnant women from coming here to have their babies on American soil that so they can be American citizens. Of Mexican women sneaking across the borders to give birth in American hospitals. However, where are their statistics? I haven’t been able to find any that has just the numbers for illegal immigrants and those here on tourist visa. The statistics are all lumped together with those who are have their Green Cards and are immigrating to the U.S.

Lastly, we all know the Republican’s position on LGBT issues, “If Gays are allowed to marry our whole society will crash” and they have continually opposed the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA) labeling it the “Bathroom Bill.” The Republicans use hate and fear to gather votes.

Instead of talking about hate, fear and bigotry, let us talk about the economy, jobs and how we are going to get out of this depression. We need to go out and vote this November to stop this hate. We need to send a clear message that we will not tolerate this strategy to drive a stake in to the heart of America.

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Manic Monday #219 (On Tuesday)

Lisa’s Manic Monday #219



Fill in the blank: If I had a nickel for every time I... raided the refrigerator.

What do you think about while you exercise?
Exercise? What is that?

What are 5 things you love about your spouse/partner/significant other (or children or pet)?
Is always there when I need them
Has a good shoulder to cry on
Is a good listener
Is looking out for me

Monday, August 23, 2010

I Have Been Up North…

I got back from our cottage in New Hampshire last night; I was up there with some friends that I invite up there every year. It is nice to have company; I could go up there any time by myself and enjoy the quiet and me time. However, it is so much more enjoyable when you have friends up there with me. I like sitting around talking, I like to cook for friends and enjoy good conversation over dinner and a glass of wine.

Because of the weather, we left early, I was planning on coming home today but it was raining and we saw no sense in staying. It was raining hard all the way home, at times I was driving at 55mph on I-91 because of the heavy rain. With all the water on the road and all the spray, you couldn’t see more than a couple of hundred feet, but there were some idiots who went flying by me, hydroplaning in the water. When I got home, I just crashed out on the recliner.

Thursday night, before I left for New Hampshire, I when out to dinner with a friend and then to Real Art Ways’ Creative Cocktail Hour. We went to a nice Italian restaurant in Hartford next to Bushnell Park, called Vito’s By the Park. While we were there, my friend Stana snapped this picture of me.

Saturday, August 21, 2010

Saturday Six – Episode 332

Patrick’s Place Saturday Six – Episode 332

1. Do you tend to think more or speak more?
I think more, but once I get talking, I don’t stop.

2. How often do you find yourself writing down your thoughts so that you won’t forget some good idea?
Not too much right now, but I think in the future I will have to write things down. However, I need to keep track of my appointments on a calendar.

3. What location allows you to do the best thinking?
A quite corner without distractions is best for me.

4. During which routine activity do you tend to do your best thinking?
Sleeping, I come up with my best idea in the middle of the night.

5. Take the quiz: What does your favorite Thought Bubble say about you?




Your Thoughts Are Constructive



You are a highly analytical person, and you tend to sit back and cooly assess a situation.
With you, logic and facts rule. And you never jump to conclusions.

You are always looking to think in new ways. You believe that reflecting is a good way to better yourself.
You tend to think before you talk or act. You are calmer than most people around you.


6. Go back to the test and choose your second choice: which of the two better describes you?
Your Thoughts Are Creative.
I think my original choice is the closest to describing me.

Friday, August 20, 2010

Friday Fill-ins #190

Janet’s Friday Fill-ins #190

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1. Laughter _is a good stress reliever_.

2. _”I just checked the date of the voice message, July 13th... I really do check my voice mail regularly, at least once a month.”_ are the three words that started off the last email I sent. (I called an acquaintance to return a voice mail that she left me and I just listened to and didn’t realize that the message was there for over a month.)

3. What I'm most looking forward to today is _going up to the cottage with some friends_.

4. _Laughter_ puts a smile on my face.

5. Where in the world _ are my car keys_?

6. _Jumping in a lake is_ just what I needed!

7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to _cookout with friends up at the cottage_, tomorrow my plans include _floating in the lake in inner tubes_ and Sunday, I want to _cool off in the lake some more_!

Thursday, August 19, 2010

My Story Part – 41 Restaurants

The story of my going to restaurants, it is a story about “coming of age”

I never was a big fan of going out to eat, especially by myself. I mostly didn’t go out to eat because of my parents, the only time that I went out to dinner with them or my family, and (like children everyone) I was embarrassed to go out to dinner with my parents. It wasn’t until I started going out as Diana that I enjoyed dinning out. However, it was a very rocky road at first.

The first time that I went out to dinner as Diana was with the Connecticut Outreach Society, to a dinner at the Gold Roc diner in West Hartford. I was very nervous and the directions that they send said to go into the diner, turn left and go all the way to the end and turn right. Well I did, head down, pocketbook tucked under my arm, I march right down there and looked up and no one was there! I sat down, not looking around, just staring at the table and when the waiter came over, he said, “I think the group that you want is over there!” I looked to where he was pointing and all my friends were sitting there giggling, I walked right past them, not seeing them. Sheepishly, I got up and walked over to them.

The next time I went out to diner, it was also with COS, this time to the Pond House in Elizabeth
Park, this time when I arrived I looked around the room and saw them sitting over in the corner. I walked over and took a seat with my back to the restaurant, so that no one could see my face and I didn’t have to see all the people staring at us. Another time at the Pond House was right after I gave my nephew a bright yellow ski jacket that I no longer wore. I walked in to the restaurant and there was a kid sitting at another table with his back towards me, wearing a ski jacket that looked just like the one that I gave away… panic! I ending up sitting with my back to them. When I came out to the family, I learned that my nephew never went to the Pond House, so as usual, I worried for nothing.

We use to have a word that we used to denote a safe place to go, “Trannitized” as in, “Oh that restaurant is safe to go to, I trannitized them last week” and it was a major concern at that time in my life about where the safe places were to go. I worried about going to a place for the first time, would they throw us out? Would they laugh at us? Over time I learned that my fears were groundless, that all places don’t really care if you are trans, they are just interested in the color of your money (that is not to say that there are not any places that discriminate, there are, but I have not found any that discriminated against me. Close, but no cigar. I had to stare down a woman at the door of a lesbian bar in Ogunquit. She finally said, well I guess it is OK for you to come in and she took my $5 cover charge)

Now I go to any restaurant that I want, I still hate to eat alone, but I always did. I like to have a good meal with good friends.

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Wednesday, August 18, 2010

The Genderless Future

Newsweek has an article called “Are We Facing a Genderless Future?” by Barbara Kantrowitz and Pat Wingert this week about the genderless future, and the first person who is legally genderless. The person lives in Australia and is listed in the birth registry as nether male nor female, the article states…
This spring, an Australian named Norrie May-Welby made headlines around the world as the world’s first legally genderless person when the New South Wales Registry of Births, Deaths and Marriages sent the Sydney resident a certificate containing neither M for male or F for female.

For a few days, it appeared that the 48-year-old activist and performer had won a long legal battle to be declared “sex not specified”—the only category that felt right to this immigrant from Scotland. May-Welby’s journey of gender identity can only be characterized as a long and winding road. Registered male at birth, May-Welby began taking female hormones at 23 and had sex-change surgery to become a woman, but now doesn’t take any hormones and identifies as genderless. The prized piece of paper May-Welby sought is called a Recognised Details Certificate, and it’s given to immigrants to Australia who want to record a sex change.
The government has since rescinded the birth certificate and Norrie is appealing the decision.

The article goes on to talk about the DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual) and the changes proposed for the fifth edition, changing “Gender Identity Disorder” to “Gender Incongruence” (I wrote about it here), on how the modern view of gender in not binary but a continuum or a spectrum.
But that seemingly simple change of language could help usher in a new era, in which a person’s gender could be expressed or experienced as male, female, “in between,” or “otherwise.” “People who work in this area have very flexible notions of gender,” Drescher says. “We don’t want to force people to fit into a doctor’s categories,” even though, he concedes, most cultures “tend to think in binaries.”

Bockting predicts that such binary thinking will eventually disappear. Many scientists, he says, see gender as a continuum and acknowledge that some people naturally fall in the middle. Gender, Bockting [associate professor and clinical psychologist at the University of Minnesota Medical School] says, “develops between the biological and the environmental. You can’t always detect gender by physical evidence. You have to ask the person how they identify themselves; in that sense, it’s psychological.”
Many people still think of gender as male and female, totally ignoring intersex people and about 1 in 1500 births are intersexed and that number does not take into count persons who identify as transgender which also about 1 in 2000 births.

The article goes on and talks about the history of genderless people in societies,
Even before the advent of sex-change surgery, there were always people who felt they didn’t fit into either gender. In India, a group of people called hijra have existed for centuries. They are typically biological males who dress as women but consider themselves to have neither gender, Bockting says. There is also a long tradition of eunuch culture. Even today, other countries are more comfortable with the idea of gender variance. Drescher says that France has removed transsexuality from its list of psychiatric disorders and put it in the category of rare diseases. The British government has also declared that transsexuality is “not a mental illness,” but people who want a sex-change can get treatment under the National Health Service.


So, what do we learn from this? What would you do if your child came to you and said that they felt they should be the other gender? There was an article in the Chicago Tribune by By Nara Schoenberg,
When kids cross the gender divide

Does your 4-year-old son dress up in his big sister's tiaras and princess costumes?

Does your 3-year-old daughter hate dolls?

With celebrity gossip sites buzzing over Angelina Jolie's comment that her 4-year-old daughter, Shiloh, wants to be a boy, media reports spotlighting rare cases of transgender children and even children's books beginning to tackle the issue, concerned parents are sifting through a lot of contradictory information.

"I think parents are very worried and confused and there isn't clear-cut advice," says Ellen Perrin, chief of developmental-behavioral pediatrics at the Floating Hospital for Children at Tufts Medical Center in Boston. "It's a complex issue."

Childhood gender behavior varies a lot, experts say, and there is a wide range of reasons a boy may want long hair (maybe he identifies with his favorite sports star) or a girl may refuse to wear dresses (perhaps they're just not her style).

What's more challenging for parents is when a child consistently pursues a range of behaviors strongly associated with the opposite sex. A boy might play with Barbies, wear dresses, vehemently reject sports and say that he wants to be a girl. A girl might insist on playing only with boys, get a boy's haircut and express strong discomfort with her own body parts.
[…]
Therapists differ dramatically in their approach to these children, with some taking the relatively new approach of supporting kids who want to live openly as members of the opposite sex. Others encourage kids to discard their more pronounced behaviors, explore new interests and embrace their own gender.

Many therapists take the middle ground of, say, accepting a very determined boy's desire to wear dresses and saying it's fine for him to do so at home, but strongly encouraging him to refrain from that behavior in school, where he might encounter unpleasant responses.

"I think the general trend has been to take more of a stance of tolerance toward the behavior instead of the old type of stance where they would yell at (these boys), criticize them, punish them for any sort of girlish behavior and send them off to military schools," says Gregory Lehne, an assistant professor of medical psychology at the Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine. "That didn't work particularly well."
Nor does beating them to death.
"Parents should be concerned if their children are concerned," says Ellen Perrin, chief of developmental-behavioral pediatrics at the Floating Hospital for Children at Tufts Medical Center. "If this is causing discomfort or distress in the child, they need to talk to the child and figure out what's going on.

"Some children, they're kind of miserable and those parents need to get some help. Nobody's going to change the child, but sometimes parents can be given advice that can make life easier."
As the article points out only 5 to 25 percent of the gender variant children grow up to be transgender. Your choice as parents determine what the mental health of the child will be when they grow up. Will they carry a guilt complex, feeling that what they feel is wrong or will they know love.

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

On The Lighter Side

Today, the “Beloit College Mindset List for the Class of 2014” was in the news and I looking trough it made me feel so old. Here are some of the items that made me feel old…

12. Clint Eastwood is better known as a sensitive director than as Dirty Harry.
This was my top “feel old” item from the list. I remember all of those “Spaghetti” westerns that he was in and how their voices were not in-sync with their lips.

8. With increasing numbers of ramps, Braille signs, and handicapped parking spaces, the world has always been trying harder to accommodate people with disabilities.
This one is good, maybe someday in the future, students will only know of marriage equality and all trans-people are treated as equals.

10. A quarter of the class has at least one immigrant parent, and the immigration debate is not a big priority…unless it involves “real” aliens from another planet.
Another good one, maybe someday we will be welcoming to all immigrants, not just the “white skin” immigrants.

19. They never twisted the coiled handset wire aimlessly around their wrists while chatting on the phone.
This one really made me feel old.

26. Unless they found one in their grandparents’ closet, they have never seen a carousel of Kodachrome slides.
I have a whole drawer full of slides. Someday, kids will marvel on film cameras.

31. The first computer they probably touched was an Apple II; it is now in a museum.
This one really hurt, I have one in my basement and it still works!

43. Russians and Americans have always been living together in space.
Another good thing. I remember “Duck and Cover”…


55. Rock bands have always played at presidential inaugural parties.
Thank you President Clinton.

65. They first met Michelangelo when he was just a computer virus.
Not good.

Monday, August 16, 2010

Manic Monday #218

Lisa’s Manic Monday #218



What are 5 things you want to do in your life?
Graduate the spring with my MSW
Travel across the U.S. and visit all the national parks
Take a windjammer cruise up the coast of Maine
Take a train trip trough the Canadian Rockies
Make it to 100 in a sound body and mind

What are you saying goodbye to?
My old life.

What are you currently fascinated with?

I don’t know…maybe a wireless file server. I saw this 2T byte drive that you can use to back up your computers and files. I know, I’m a geek.

Sunday, August 15, 2010

Maine Trip Day 3

Today I went up the coast to Boothbay to go to the Coastal Maine Botanical Garden. It was about a two-hour drive from my brother’s condo, half the drive was on the Maine Turnpike and I-295 and the rest of the way was on secondary roads (Rt. 1 & Rt. 27). The roads went winding along the Maine shore and every one in awhile the road would cross an ocean inlet or a tidal river. On the way up, it was low tide, however, on the way back, it was just about high tide with the water was swirling under the bridges as the tide rushed in. The drive took me past the Bath Iron Works where they work on Navy ships and a few of them were tied up to the docks and the cranes they have at the shipyard were gigantic.

On the drive to the gardens, there was one traffic jam that lasted for about a mile and a half in each direction. Why was it backed up? It was because of a crosswalk. One or two cars would get by before someone crossed the street and traffic came to a halt as they crossed. They really should put in a crossing light to control the pedestrian traffic, instead of just random foot traffic that only allows one or two cars to pass at a time. [End of Rant]

The gardens were beautiful! I was so glad that I went. The garden is 248 acres and it has over a mile of ocean frontage (you can see the map here), the trails just wind through out the different gardens. Here are some of the photos that I took…








They would let me go beyond this point*
But they did have a garden just for us, wasn’t that sweet of them…
*They have a fairy village for the kids (see map).

I’m Up At My Brother’s & Sister-In-Law’s Condo On Maine This Weekend

I was originally supposed to dogsit their dog Mattie, but sadly, she passed away, so now I’m just condo sitting this weekend. Yesterday I went down to Kittery to do some shopping for school, but I did stay long because it was mobbed. It was wall-to-wall people, so I just stayed long enough to make the trip to Kittery worthwhile. However, I did stop at Terra Cotta Paste to buy some lobster ravioli and Newbury sauce to take home. The ravioli was delicious, but I did like the Newberg sauce, it to too thin and wasn’t cream based.

Yesterday, I went down to the local beach for the afternoon. Because of the limited parking, I had to park about a half a mile away and carry all my stuff to the beach. When I got there at around eleven, the beach was pretty deserted, but by the time I left, there was a crowd. I just don’t understand some people, this family came and plopped down in front of me blocking my view of the water with their umbrella. There were open spots on either side of my where they could have claimed, but no, they had to sit in front of me. So, I packed up and left around two-thirty, I was planning on staying only until three anyway.

For dinner, I went to a place that I like on Cape Porpoise that sits right at the end of the town dock where the fishing boats unload (Photo: The lobster traps that were stored on the dock). While I was waiting for my dinner, I watched the fisherman loading the bait fish for their traps. They put a small fish in each trap to attract the lobster. For dinner, I had fried clams, onion rings and Cole Slaw and then walked around on the dock. Afterward, I went back to the condo and tried to stay awake until ten, but I only made it to 9:30. The sun and salt air takes a lot out of you, and even though I was sitting under an umbrella, I got a slight sunburn.

Today I am heading up to Boothbay to visit the Coastal Maine Botanical Gardens.

Look for an update once I get back.

Saturday, August 14, 2010

Saturday Six – Episode 331

Patrick’s Place Saturday Six – Episode 331


1. Do you usually feel physically younger or older than you actually are?
Right now after sitting out on the beach for three hours and having a shore diner, I feel a lot older

2. When it comes to your own sensibilities and personal taste, do you usually feel younger or older than you actually are?
I have more mature tastes.

3. Do you think you were better at being a kid or an adult?

As an adult, I’m living life more than ever before.

4. Do you find yourself trying to make more time for play or rest these days?
As I said, right now all I want to do is sleep

5. Take the quiz: Are You a Puppy or a Kitten?




You Are a Kitten



You are playful and sweet, but you also treasure your alone time.
You're pretty independent, and you resent anyone trying to tell you what to do.

You don't get bored easily. You are quite good at entertaining yourself.
Deep down, you are quite sensitive and intuitive. You are less standoffish than you seem.



6. Which have you had more of in your life: dogs or cats?

Dogs, no one on our family have any cats.

Friday, August 13, 2010

Saturday 9: Superstition

Crazy Sam’s Saturday 9: Superstition



1. What are you superstitious about?
I am not superstitious.

2. What’s the story behind one of your scars?
The one over my left eyebrow is from when my brother and I were sword fighting with curtain rods and he stabbed me.

3. What are three things that you would rather be doing right now?
Napping (I’m writing this at 4:30 in the afternoon)
Eating (after I nap)
Sleeping (after I eat)

4. What do you do when you're bored?
Surf the web and do memes

5. What's your favorite thing to do? Why?
Photography, because I try to capture the beauty that I see every day.

6. What do you do when you're lonely?
Surf the web and do memes

7. How do you measure the passing of time in life?
Watching my niece, nephews and their kids grow up.

8. What would constitute "the perfectly lived day" for you?
Being with a family or a bunch of friends.

9. If you knew you were going to die in a year, what would you do in your final days?
I can't say, its X rated.