Wednesday, December 21, 2022

Right Here In Our Backyard

We tend to think of the Northeast as being a haven to LGBTQ+ rights, all of the states have pasted gender inclusive non-discrimination laws including New Hampshire but they want to carve out an exception to the law for trans children.

A New Hampshire bill would ban gender-affirming care for minors & many adults
"We have been saying a slow moving genocide targeted at eliminating transgender people through eliminating gender affirming care is happening."
LGBTQ Nation
By Molly Sprayregen
December 17, 2022


New Hampshire Republicans have proposed a bill that would ban gender-affirming care for both minors and young adults.

Activist Erin Reed pointed out on Twitter that the bill, LSR0071,  is the third proposed in a week that targets trans adults along with youth.

“They will continue to raise the age until states ban transition entirely,” Reed wrote.

“We have been saying a slow moving genocide targeted at eliminating transgender people through eliminating gender affirming care is happening,” she added. “It continues.”

New Hampshire is a kind of a reddish purple state. It swings between Republican and Democratic control, since 1992, the Democratics had four years of a Democratic trifectas and eleven years of Republican trifectas. “Live Free or Die” is the state motto but it only applies to conservatives, if you are trans the Republicans don’t care if you die.

The bill’s title seems to define gender-affirming care as a type of conversion therapy, which is banned in New Hampshire. It states that the bill seeks to prohibit “gender transition procedures for minors and young adults, relative to sex and gender in public schools, and relative to the definition of conversion therapy.”

The harmful and widely condemned practice of conversion therapy – in which so-called therapists try to force LGBTQ+ people into being straight and cisgender – is the exact opposite of gender-affirming care, which affirms people’s identities.

They have warped what conversion therapy means, my guess is that if this works in New Hampshire you will see the same tactic used in other purple states.. “we are only helping the children.” and they will use the biased research studies and ignore scientific research.

Tuesday, December 20, 2022

I Would Fire Her.

When she took the job she knew that there would be LGBTQ+ students and part of her job would be to treat all students the same.

Teacher says she lost her job after refusing to use student’s pronouns at Ohio school
Kansas City Star
By Mitchell Willetts
December 13, 2022


An Ohio teacher lost her job after refusing to use the pronouns of two students due to her religious beliefs, according to a lawsuit.

The lawsuit, filed Dec. 12, claims the Jackson Local School District Board of Education and several administrators violated Vivian Geraghty’s rights to free speech and religion by demanding she refer to students by pronouns that don’t match with their genders assigned at birth — or else her employment would be terminated.

Geraghty began teaching at Jackson Memorial Middle School in 2020, the lawsuit said. At the beginning of the 2022 school year, she learned two of her students were asking to be called by different names and pronouns as part of their “social transition” to different genders.

She felt that participating in this “social transition” would be a violation of her Christian beliefs, and would cause psychological damage to the students in question, the lawsuit said.

Geraghty met with administrators at the school and asked if she could call the students by their last names instead, but they responded that, as a public servant, Geraghty should put her personal beliefs aside, the lawsuit said.

This is just like the case in Tennessee with the town clerk.

Kim Davis violated same-sex couples' rights by refusing marriage licenses, judge says
NPR
By Jaclyn Dia
March 19, 2022


Kim Davis — the former clerk in Kentucky whose refusal to sign marriage certificates for same-sex couples grabbed national headlines in 2015 — violated their constitutional rights, a federal judge found.

[…]

The legal battle started in 2015 when Davis, in her capacity of a county clerk, defied the Supreme Court's ruling in Obergefell v. Hodges. It's the landmark decision that legalized same-sex marriage nationwide.

She said distributing marriage licenses to such couples went against her beliefs as a member of the Apostolic Church, arguing that she could not give them a marriage license "under God's authority."

Her refusal quickly drew support from social conservatives and anger from same-sex marriage advocates.

I think that the two cases are the same, both public servant that refused to do their jobs but we have a new Supreme Court, one that likes to rule “religious freedom” at every drop of a hat.


 

Like Little Parrots.

We are now hearing from the pundits decrying about the Federal Appeals court ruling on the trans athlete case and like little parrots they are just repeating the party nonsense.

They are out there pounding the right-wing riling up their base with nothing about why the judges ruled the way they did, instead it all about “unfair advantage” boys competing on girls teams” all the usual right-wing garbage.

Fox news wrote

Federal court rejects challenge from female athletes to Connecticut transgender sports policy

Federal appeals court 'unpersuaded' by arguments against letting biological males who identify as female compete on girls' and women's sports teams

And they dragged in Caitlyn Jenner.

This is a major lost for the Alliance Defending Freedom who represents the plaintiffs, the ruling was based in part on the Grimm v. Gloucester County School Board and Bostock v. Clayton County, Georgia cases. The Grimm v. Gloucester County School Board was about Title IX applying to trans students and Bostock v. Clayton County, Georgia case reaffirmed that Title VII also applies to trans people at work. You can bet your bottom dollar that the ADF will appeal to the Supreme Court. But… (You always know that there is a but.) it is a new court since the those rulings.

So back to the Connecticut ruling.

The Hill wrote about the case, the federal court judge ruled that the case was…

A district judge last year dismissed the case, ruling that the plaintiffs’ request for an injunction was “moot” because Miller and Yearwood were no longer high school students and no other transgender athletes were set to compete against the cisgender athletes the following season.

And the ADF appealed the case and the three judge panel just ruled Friday on the case.

On Friday, the three-judge panel ruled that the plaintiffs’ claims were unfounded because, “on numerous occasions,” they had placed first in various track and field events, even while competing against Miller and Yearwood.

“Plaintiffs simply have not been deprived of a ‘chance to be champions,’” the panel wrote.

In other words the three judges also said that there was no “injuries” that the plaintiffs sustained. The ACLU went into more detail in the ruling.

On behalf of Andraya Yearwood and Terry Miller, two transgender young women, the American Civil Liberties Union and the ACLU Foundation of Connecticut defended the transgender youth participation policy of the Connecticut Interscholastic Athletic Conference (CIAC) in Soule et al v. CT Association of Schools et al, the nation’s first federal court case challenging such a policy.

In today’s ruling, the Second Circuit ruled the claims that cisgender girls were denied opportunities or championships are moot and unfounded, ultimately ruling they lacked standing to challenge the CIAC’s policy. The court noted that, on numerous occasions, the cisgender plaintiffs placed first in various events, even sometimes when competing against Yearwood and Miller. The court also affirmed discrimination against transgender students violates Title IX, the federal law that prohibits sex discrimination in educational programs, aligning today’s ruling with the Supreme Court’s ruling on Title VII in Bostock v. Clayton County.

“Today’s ruling is a critical victory for fairness, equality, and inclusion,” said Joshua Block, senior staff attorney for the ACLU’s LGBTQ & HIV Project. “The court rejected the baseless zero-sum arguments presented by the opposition to this policy and ultimately found transgender girls have as much a right to play as cisgender girls under Title IX. This critical victory strikes at the heart of political attacks against transgender youth while helping ensure every young person has the right to play.”

Basically the court said so you played against trans athletes so what? How did it hurt you? You went on to the college of your choice and got a sports scholarship, what’s the harm.

The case wasn't based on if it was unfair but rather what was the injury playing against trans athletes? This is a hollow victory for us, the case wasn’t ruled on whether it is discriminating to allow trans athletes to compete but rather the standing of the plaintiffs’ complaint. The court ruling was it didn’t matter that they ran against trans athletes because they won other other track events and went on to college with sport scholarships.

My little part…

Along with PFLAG we submitted an Amicus Curiae brief to the court. As the Executive Director of Connecticut TransAdvoacy Coalition I was asked to give a statement for the brief and basically I said that denying trans athletes the ability to compete would deny then the advantages and leadership skills that sports teaches.


Monday, December 19, 2022

You Can’t Make These Things Up.

I don’t like posting all these spiteful articles of lawmakers trying to pass these horrible laws against us but they keep coming out with crazier stuff.

Texas Lawmaker Hires Guy Who Wants to Execute Parents Who Take Kids to Drag Shows
Jake Neidert, GOP state Rep. Tony Tinderholt's new legislative director, has had his Twitter account suspended since he tweeted those comments.
The Advocate
By JD Glass
December 16 2022


At a time of increased of anti LGBTQ+ rhetoric and violence, Republican Texas state Rep. Tony Tinderholt — who has endorsed the death penalty for Texans who undergo or perform abortions — has hired a new legislative director, self-proclaimed Christian nationalist Jake Neidert, who once tweeted that parents who take their children to drag shows should be executed in public.

The hiring comes just before a legislative session that is “expected to focus heavily on anti-trans bills,” The Texas Tribune reports.

Christian nationalists are an extreme group. “There’s a long history of Christian nationalism in the United States, and it has often been the type of nationalism that tries to exclude others,” Dr. David W. Scott, a Methodist historical researcher and the director of mission theology at the General Board of Global Ministries of the United Methodist Church, explained on the UMC blog. “American Christian nationalism has tried to define the United States as a native white Protestant nation and exclude all others: Catholics, African Americans, indigenous peoples, immigrants, Jews, Muslims, etc.”

I think the above paragraph says it all.

Neidert has also denounced the arrests of Patriot Front members who intended to commit violence at a Pride event in Idaho and has made light of the death of unarmed Black man George Floyd at the hands of Minneapolis police, saying “George Floyd is two years sober today” on the second anniversary of the murder.

He is not just anti-trans but he goes for the jugular vein.

Oh Wow! Bravo!

This is excellent, in Fresno City the when a councilman started ragging on transgender people and drag queens, the councilmen walked out.

Councilman starts talking drag queens and rest of Fresno council walks out. Here’s why
The Fresno Bee
By Brianna Vaccari
December 15, 2022


The Fresno City Council meeting on Thursday was paused momentarily for lack of quorum after councilmembers left the dais in protest of City Councilmember Garry Bredefeld’s repeated attacks against transgender people and drag queens.

Bredefeld spoke in response to a number of residents who criticized him during public comment for his social media posts and rhetoric against the transgender community.

As he spoke, Councilmembers Miguel Arias, Luis Chavez, Nelson Esparza and Tyler Maxwell quietly walked away from the dais and out of the council chambers.

In the middle of Bredefeld’s remarks, City Clerk Todd Sterner interrupted him, noting there was a lack of quorum. While the meeting was shortly put on hold, Bredefeld continued speaking, and Councilmembers Annalisa Perea and Mike Karbassi also left the dais.

Bredefeld’s words were met with shouting from the audience members.

YES!

They will not listen to the anti-trans ranting, great move!

Councilmember Bredefeld and the others that stay will now have to defend themselves for using the anti-trans venom. Of course Mr. Bredefeld doesn’t see it that way, he sees himself as a champion protecting the “children” from “grooming.”

Bredefeld spoke about his opposition to children being exposed to drag performances, which he claimed confuses children about gender. But, he said, he never promoted hatred or violence.

He doesn’t see his vitriol attacks as causing harm, and those armed protesters call him a hero.

The polls show a wide support for us! A UMass at Amherst poll found,

“However,” he adds, “as Republican-led state legislatures and governors pass legislation aimed at restricting the discussion of the diversity in sexual orientation among human beings in their public schools, it is important to note that this position is out of step with public opinion as a majority of the American public believe that it is appropriate for children to read books that feature gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender people and to have conversations about differences in sexual orientation.”

Once again the Republicans only consider their views as being acceptable.

In Gallop polls they asked over the years, if being LG is morally acceptable in 2001 only 40% said yes and 53% said no but in 2022 when the same question was asked 71% said yes while 25% said no!

More telling is the numbers of people who think we are born being lesbian or gay. In 1977 only 13% thought we are and 56% thought it is a choice but sadly in 2019 that number hasn’t changed that much only 49% said it is something we are born with while 32% said outside factors are the causes in being LG.

But when it comes to our rights the change is dramatic! 

In 1977 56% said lesbian and gays rights should be protected while 33% said no but 2019 93% said yes while 5% said no.

In a post election poll by the HRC they found…

Across the country, election deniers and right-wing extremists lost winnable elections because they advocated views that are out-of-touch with average voters, particularly the huge number of Equality Voters who made the critical difference up and down the ballot. Equality Voters are a group of voters modeled to support LGBTQ+ equality, numbering 62 million nationwide. They represented 39 percent of the 2022 electorate—a number that reflects the growing political strength of this voting bloc—and tend to be younger and more racially diverse than the electorate as a whole.

We must educate!

We have to get out there and convince the voters that this is something we are born with and not a choice.

Sunday, December 18, 2022

What Do You Think?

The right-wing extremists are arming and there are some LGBTQ are also arming but they worried that they will be blocked from buying guns. 
NPR
By Devin Speak
December 15, 2022

Some of Oregon's trans and queer gun supporters are worried that a new state law will prevent them from buying firearms.

The law, Measure 114, grants county sheriffs and police chiefs discretion to determine who qualifies to purchase a firearm under a new permit-to-purchase program.

But Measure 114 lacks criteria clearly defining what disqualifies applicants, details on what makes someone a threat and what data can be used by law enforcement in making that decision. That's a problem for activists who have critiqued law enforcement, particularly in the racial justice protests that took place over the past two years.
Will we be denied because we are in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) and the International Classification of Diseases (ICD) and therefore “mentally ill”?
Our will we be denied because of discrimination?
Activist Ross Eliot shares the desire for community defense and opposition to Measure 114. Rose and Eliot worry the law will disproportionately inhibit outspoken marginalized groups from purchasing guns, while doing little to prevent domestic terrorism. This is due to a confluence of factors, from the rise of 3D printed 'ghost-guns' to reports of ties by some Oregon law enforcement officials to right-wing groups like Patriot Prayer and the Oath Keepers.
Right now it is on hold,
Last week a state judge blocked Measure 114 from taking effect only hours after a federal judge gave it the go-ahead, albeit with a delay in its original Dec. 8 implementation. The state judge upheld his temporary restraining order at a hearing earlier this week.
Personally I like the guns laws here in Connecticut I think that they are sane.

What About My Religious Freedom?

These born evangelical Christians are always harping about “their” religious freedom but what about our religious freedom? What about our belief of non-discrimination.

What about my personal right to be free from your religion?
Lexington Herald Leader via Yahoo News
By Shelley Roberts Bendall
December 16, 2022


Nobody likes to have their rights taken away. Liberals and conservatives can agree on that, but they can’t agree on which rights to protect and which ones to eliminate.

I’d been watching a woman on CNN make the argument she had a right to refuse to create a wedding website for a same same-sex couple. I wasn’t shocked at the case she was making as these are arguments we’ve heard before. What stunned me was the context through which we perceive personal freedoms in this country.

The woman said same-sex marriage goes against her religious beliefs and the government shouldn’t force her to create a unique piece of art (the website) that goes against the basis of her religion.

Here was a woman angry that her freedom to choose who she works with could be taken away when all over the country state legislatures, as well as the Supreme Court, are taking away the freedom of women to control their own bodies. While all rights are important, the discrepancy in immediate relevance to someone’s life is obvious.

She raises some interesting points!

It is OK for the government to compel an 11-year old girl to have her uncle’s baby, but boy are we offended that someone might have to recognize a different kind of family than the one they have.

This is basically the argument the religious right continues to make: You can’t make me do something (make a website) because it offends my religion, but I can force you to do something (have a baby) because my religion says you have to.

Religion shouldn’t dictate laws.

Hypocrisy is nothing new in this country, but religious extremists are slowly eroding our individual rights. It appears they won’t stop until our entire government follows the same rules as their religions. And yes, the woman’s legal representation is provided by the Alliance Defending Freedom, an organization that, according to its website, is a, “…world leader in defending…God’s design for marriage and family.”

It is like only their religion counts!

There are a number of religions that allow abortions, but it seems like the only ones that matter are those that don’t allow abortions.

There is a great number of affirming religions but only those that ban  LGBTQ+ count.

How differently we view individual rights in this country. It’s all about personal freedom until they don’t agree with the kind of freedom you want.

There is no scientific or objective reason to outlaw abortion. The arguments are purely religious in nature. The religious right seems to think it should be legal to discriminate against members of the LGBTQ community because “freedom”, but it is not OK to give women the right to choose whether to give birth to her rapist’s baby. Because religion.

What about my right to freedom from religion?

I propose a new strategy.

That our religious freedom is being denied, what we need a trans, a lesbian, or a gay man who is a member of an affirming religion who has been refused service because they are LGBTQ+ to sue.

I feel that if we file a discrimination complaint that they violated  our religious beliefs that it will put it in direct opposition to the Supreme Court’s religious freedom rulings, it will force the courts to either agree with us that are “religious freedom” are being abridged, or there is only “religious freedom” to discriminate and not from “religious freedom” being discriminated against.

It will put the courts in a quandary, to chose between freedoms. They will be damn if they do and damn if they don’t. They will have to pick between different religious beliefs.

Saturday, December 17, 2022

Saturday 9: The Christmas Song

Sam’s Saturday 9: The Christmas Song (1964)

On Saturdays I take a break from the heavy stuff and have some fun… 

Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.

1) While this song was published as "The Christmas Song," many people refer to it as "Chestnuts Roasting on an Open Fire." Have you ever roasted chestnuts (in an open fire or in the oven)?

Yes, when I was little and my grandmother was still alive. We had a wired basket in a long handle that we could roast them in (It was also for popcorn.). It was something like this.

Natalie Cole & Nat King Cole

2) Ricky Nelson sings that turkey helps make the season bright. Many of us just had turkey last month for Thanksgiving. Do you enjoy turkey all year around? Or do you consider it a seasonal dish?

Yes, but not a whole turkey. I buy frozen turkey breast.

3) He wishes "Merry Christmas" to kids from 1 to 92. Who is the youngest person you will celebrate the holidays with? Who is the oldest?

If I decide to go down to New Jersey for Christmas, the youngest will be my nephew daughters and my brother, sister-in-law, and then me.

4) "The Christmas Song" is a perennial favorite and gets lots of play this time of year. Is there a holiday song that you think is overplayed, and that you hope to not hear again (at least not until December 2023)?

The song that we all love to hate, “Grandmother Got Run Over By A Reindeer.”


5) This version of the song is from The Adventures of Ozzie and Harriet, the sitcom that ran from 1952 to 1966. There were 435 episodes in all. Is there a series whose every episode you've seen?

Babylon 5. The Star Trek shows.

6) Life magazine coined the phrase "teen idol" to describe Ricky's popularity. In your younger days, did you have a crush on a teen idol?

Annette Funicello, those Micky Mouse ears did it.

7) Do you have a funny/ugly holiday sweater?

Nope.

8) Have you received many holiday cards this year? Did you send many?

Mea culpa, mea culpa I have stopped sending out Christmas cards.

9) If you were Santa, what cookie would you like kids to leave for you on Christmas Eve?

Chocolate Chip with hot chocolate milk.

Thanks so much for joining us again at Saturday: 9. As always, feel free to come back, see who has participated and comment on their posts. In fact sometimes, if you want to read & comment on everyone's responses, you might want to check back again tomorrow. But it is not a rule. We haven’t any rules here. Join us on next Saturday for another version of Saturday: 9, "Just A Silly Meme on a Saturday!" Enjoy your weekend!

Friday, December 16, 2022

A Book Report.

As most of you know, I am an avid science fiction fan.

I hated books!

Books were long and dull, of stuffy old families living on the moors of England, or about a man and a whale, or a book about a kid sailing down a river on a raft, or about an orphan in Victorian England, or about the Civil War and cowardice. Ugh!

So I wasn’t much of a book reader. Thank god for Cliff Notes!

In college my roommate was a reader, one book after another and he said here read this book… Naw. Go ahead a try it!

So after a lot of nagging I picked it up and couldn’t put it down!

The book? It was Stranger in a Strange Land by Robert Heinlein. I was hooked!

The current book that I’m listening to is by Arkadi Martine’s A Desolation Called Peace which won the 2022 Hugo Award. I finished her first book A Memory Called Empire.

The first thing that struck me was the names of the characters… Three Seagrass, Nine Maize, Ninteen Adze, Six Direction, Fifteen Engine, Thirty Larkspur, and others. You got to admit they are weird names for characters.

The second thing was the name of the empire Teixcalaanli, Texas? Or maybe the Aztecs wasn’t there a city or something with a name similar to that. A little googling I found Tenochtitlan, the capital of the Aztec empire. Hmm…

On another website I found, The History Behind the Character Names in ‘A Memory Called Empire.’ Bingo!

I began in the place where all research begins, Wikipedia. There I found an account of the Mixtec king Eight Deer Jaguar Claw, or 8 Deer for short, who was the only Mixtex king to ever unit them all under one banner. The Mixtecs were later conquered in the 16th century by the Spanish and there are about 800,000 Mixtec still living in Mexico today.

So that was a good start and it gave me what I needed to look a little further. As it turns out, the basis for Mixtec names came from the calendar that they used, with individuals being named after the day they were born. So Eight Deer would have been named after the day on which he was born. There are thirteen days and twenty symbols on this calendar. Eventually, I found this site which offers much more context on Mixtec names and mesoamerican culture in general.

So I was on the right track.

Another thing that intrigued me was that there seemed to be a little chemistry nothing out right in the open but little hints between the main character Mahit Dzmare and her Imperial liaison, Three Seagrass who is also a woman. That generated another “Hmm…”

In my research I found out that the author is a lesbian.

You see the main character Mahit Dzmare is not an Empire citizen but an ambassador and is called a barbarian but the Empire citizens, shades of the Roman Empire. The way the book dealt her being called a barbarian and her response to be called that seemed like a metaphor for something else.

When she flies off the handle at Three Seagrass for calling her a barbarian all the time, saying that she always brings that up all the time. Something clicked, you hear that in the LGBTQ+ community all the time. They are okay with you being trans but it seems like that keep preferencing your name with trans.

Don’t get me wrong so far there is nothing sexual or her being attracted to Three Seagrass, but just hints.

These are great books, Goodread said this about her first book…

Ambassador Mahit Dzmare arrives in the center of the multi-system Teixcalaanli Empire only to discover that her predecessor, the previous ambassador from their small but fiercely independent mining Station, has died. But no one will admit that his death wasn't an accident—or that Mahit might be next to die, during a time of political instability in the highest echelons of the imperial court.

Now, Mahit must discover who is behind the murder, rescue herself, and save her Station from Teixcalaan's unceasing expansion—all while navigating an alien culture that is all too seductive, engaging in intrigues of her own, and hiding a deadly technological secret—one that might spell the end of her Station and her way of life—or rescue it from annihilation.

And it was Goodreads' Choice Award for best novel and won the Hugo Award, her second book A Desolation Called Peace won her a second Hugo Award, was nominated for a Nebula Award, and a nominee for the Lambda Literary Award.

These books are available from your local library online, both written and audio versions.

News Flash! CT Non-Discrimination Law Stands!

A federal appeals court has just ruled in our favor!

Court upholds Connecticut’s transgender athlete policy
AP News
By Dave Collins
December 16, 2022


A federal appeals court on Friday dismissed a challenge to Connecticut’s policy of allowing transgender girls to compete in girls high school sports, rejecting arguments by four cisgender runners who said they were unfairly forced to race against transgender athletes.

A three-judge panel of the 2nd U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals in New York City upheld a lower court judge’s dismissal of a lawsuit challenging the policy. The panel said the four cisgender athletes lacked standing to sue — in part because their claims that they were deprived of wins, state titles and athletic scholarship opportunities were speculative.

“All four Plaintiffs regularly competed at state track championships as high school athletes, where Plaintiffs had the opportunity to compete for state titles in different events,” the decision said. “And, on numerous occasions, Plaintiffs were indeed “champions,” finishing first in various events, even sometimes when competing against (transgender athletes).”

The judges added, “Plaintiffs simply have not been deprived of a ‘chance to be champions.’”

Translation to non-legal speech…

Where’s your beef?

You got a college track and field scholarship of the college of your choice, you competed in high school sports, and you won many track and field events. So where is the discrimination?

“Today’s ruling is a critical victory for fairness, equality, and inclusion” Joshua Block, a lawyer for the ACLU’s LGBTQ & HIV Project, said in a statement. “This critical victory strikes at the heart of political attacks against transgender youth while helping ensure every young person has the right to play.”

Transgender athletes’ ability to compete in sports is the subject of a continuing national debate. At least 12 Republican-led states have passed laws banning transgender women or girls in sports based on the premise it gives them an unfair competitive advantage.

Transgender rights advocates counter such laws aren’t just about sports, but another way to demean and attack transgender youth.

But as you probably have guested that this case is going to the Supreme Court.

We've Seen This Before.

But what is difference is the violence and the threats.

During the Lavender Scare it was loss of jobs and jail that was our threat now it is guns, acts of violence, and deadly threats. The DHS has come out with terrorist threat warning against the LGBTQ+ and Jewish communities last month.

LGBT community says concerns in aftermath of Moore County protests go beyond a drag show
News & Observer.
By Colleen Hammond
December 9, 2022


When the stage went dark at the Sunrise Theater on Saturday evening, drag artist Naomi Dix thought it was just part of the show. But as stagehands, performers and assistants scrambled in the darkness, Dix said it became clear that something was wrong. 

Unbeknownst to Dix, the power outage at the theater in downtown Southern Pines was the result of a targeted attack on multiple power substations in Moore County that left more than 45,000 homes without power this week. 

And after death threats and protests leading up to Saturday’s show, Dix could not shake the feeling that the power outage might be connected to the growing number of anti-LGBT attacks and demonstrations happening across the country and outside the stage doors.

[…]

“We don’t know what has anything to do in connection with the drag show,” Dix said. “What we do know is that this is a larger issue — that the queer community has been targeted.”

Dix and others point to an increasingly hostile climate in North Carolina and around the country to those in the LGBTQ community. The threats have included protests outside libraries hosting drag story time and online bullying, escalating to death threats and the Nov. 19 Club Q mass shooting in Colorado Springs that killed five and injured 25 others.

White supremacist organizations like the Proud Boys and other groups have upped the level of violence.

Colorado Springs: Far-Right Influencers Made LGBTQ People Into Targets
The Southern Poverty Law Center
By Jason Wilson
November 22, 2022


These actors have made LGBTQ Americans into targets: of hateful social media posts that direct harassment, threats, and attacks at schools, hospitals, and individuals; of abuse, intimidation, and violence from hate groups; of laws that limit their care or censor information about gender and sexuality.

Anti-LGBTQ influencers channeling hate

A cluster of online influencers have ramped up bigoted and conspiracy-laced messaging in the last two years, directing hostile attention at drag shows, businesses, Pride festivals, children’s hospitals, and other places where LGBTQ people come together or receive care.

And they are creating fear in the community.

We do not know who to trust anymore, there were police and military personnel at the January 6th Insurrection, and in Ohio the NY Daily News reported,

An Ohio police officer was caught on video high-fiving a member of the the Proud Boys during an anti-LGBTQ protest in Columbus over the weekend.

The cop, who identified himself as Sgt. Dyer, confirmed to a group of LGBTQ rights supporters that he had engaged with the far-right extremist group who were there to protest an all-ages storytelling event featuring drag performers.

Who do you trust?

Republican politicians hype the anti-LGBTQ, anti-Jewish, and anti-Muslim flames, voters voted almost  50 percent Republican approving of enmity against us, the Fox News’s Tucker Carlson has one of the highest rated shows! Meanwhile sponsors go after the ratings and don’t care about the message.

And threats against us keep increasing.

GLAAD: Threats, violence against drag events surged nationwide in 2022
UPI
By A.L. Lee
November 23, 2022


Threats and violence against drag and transgender events surged nationwide throughout 2022, according to an LGBTQ advocacy group conducting one of the first comprehensive studies into anti-gay activities following the deadly mass shooting at an LGBTQ nightclub in Colorado last Saturday.

GLAAD, one of the world's foremost LGBTQ advocacy groups, counted at least 124 cases in at least 47 states where anti-gay activities or significant threats had targeted drag events throughout 2022.

Texas saw the most anti-gay threats and protests this year, with 10 such occurrences in the Lone Star State. North Carolina was next with nine episodes, followed by Illinois (8), California (6), Tennessee (6), and Georgia (5).

The majority of protests and other such incidents occurred during Pride events over the summer and fall and were punctuated by violent rhetoric and false claims in campaign leaflets that targeted drag performers, the report states.

The analysis recalled several incidents that made headlines months ago.

In late July, the founder of a Neo-Nazi group and two other men were arrested in Boston during a protest against a drag queen story hour for children. And days later, Florida Gov. Ron DeSantis confirmed his state was investigating a restaurant that went viral after a video showed children at one of the establishment's drag brunch events.

Over 50 percent of the voters voted Marjorie Taylor Greene endorsing her rancor against us.

Everyone laughed when Hillary Clinton said “It takes a whole village.” but she was right. If you are going end this violence the other 50 percent has to stand up and say enough is enough and speak out against the violence.

If you hear mean, intervene.

You all have heard Martin Niemölle poem…

First they came for the socialists, and I did not speak out—because I was not a socialist.

Then they came for the trade unionists, and I did not speak out—because I was not a trade unionist.

Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out—because I was not a Jew.

Then they came for me—and there was no one left to speak for me.

Which is on a plaque in the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum.

If you do not want history to repeat itself you have to speak out!

~~~~~~~~~

If you are a victim of a hate crime you can report it here…

Contact the Hate Crimes Investigative Unit of the Connecticut State Police at hate.crimes@ct.gov

Call your local police or 1-800-CALL-FBI or submit a tip at tips.fbi.gov.

You can submit a tip anonymously.

The Connecticut State Police has just set up a special unit to deal with hate crimes and started training officers on hate crimes on the recommendations of the Governor’s Hate Crime Advisor Council.

Thursday, December 15, 2022

I Say, Trouble Right In River City*

Many of us here in the northeast think all these white supremacists are down South and Midwest not here in New England but they are here! Fall River Massachusetts had white supremacists protesters.

Neo-Nazis disrupted a drag event in Fall River. Organizers said they won't be discouraged.
The Herald News
By Audrey Cooney
December 15, 2022


A group of organized neo-Nazis disrupted a children’s event featuring a drag artist in Fall River this past weekend, with organizers vowing to not be discouraged from putting on future events.

“It was the most unsettling thing I’ve seen with my own eyes in a really long time,” said Sean Connell, President of the Fall River Pride Committee. “I think it’s so imperative to stay out here in the face of hate like this.”

On Saturday, Dec. 10, the Fall River Pride Committee hosted a drag story time at the Fall River Public Library, which featured a performer in drag reading children’s books. Connell said they’ve hosted 14 of the events so far, one every month for more than a year.

[…]

Video and photos from the event show a group of around 20 people on the sidewalk outside the library on North Main Street, dressed in black and with masks and bandanas covering their faces and a large banner that read “drag queens are pedophiles!” At times, they performed the Nazi salute and chanted things like “faggot scum off our streets” and “131,” ostensibly a reference to NSC-131, a New England-based neo-Nazi group.

Fascists! Right here!

The Southern Poverty Law Center lists hate groups here in Connecticut in Norwich, Canterbury, Waterbury, and one group is listed as statewide. In the northeast they list; 6 Maine, 3 Massachusetts, 5 New Hampshire, 17 New York, 3 Rhode Island, and 2 Vermont so don’t think that it can’t happen here because we are a blue island. We have sickos just like in Republican states.

* Music Man, “Ya Got Trouble”


If you think you are a victim of a bias incident or crime you can report them here...

Contact the Hate Crimes Investigative Unit of the Connecticut State Police at hate.crimes@ct.gov

Call your local police or 1-800-CALL-FBI or submit a tip at tips.fbi.gov.

You can submit a tip anonymously.


What is a bias incident or crime?

Bias or hate crimes are crimes motivated by the perpetrator's bias or attitude against an individual victim or group based on perceived or actual personal characteristics, such as their race, religion, ethnicity, gender, sexual orientation, or disability. Hate/bias crimes have received renewed attention in recent years, particularly since the passage of the federal Hate/Bias Crime Reporting Act of 1990 and the New York State Hate Crimes Act of 2000.

Bias-related incidents are behaviors which constitute an expression of hostility, against the person or property of another because of the targeted person's race, religion, sexual orientation, ethnicity, national origin, gender, age, or disability. According to New York Penal Law Section 485, a person commits a hate crime when he or she commits a specified criminal offense and either:

  1. intentionally selects the person against whom the offense is committed or intended to be committed in whole or in substantial part because of a belief or perception regarding the race, color, national origin, ancestry, gender, religion, religious practice, age, disability or sexual orientation of a person, regardless of whether the belief or perception is correct, or
  2. intentionally commits the act or acts constituting the offense in whole or in substantial part because of a belief or perception regarding the race, color, national origin, ancestry, gender, religion, religious practice, age, disability or sexual orientation of a person, regardless of whether the belief or perception is correct.

Sadly bias speech is not a crime we have the right under the Constitution to say the most vile and hateful things, they cross the line if they make threats or a physical assault. 

 

Big Brother Is Out To Get You!

Ken Paxton the Texas Attorney General is doing a dragnet of for trans people. Talk about an authoritarian government!
The office of Ken Paxton’s request speaks to the increasing scrutiny and targeting of transgender individuals by GOP lawmakers
Rolling Stone
By NikkiI McCann Ramirez
December 14, 2022

TEXAS ATTORNEY GENERAL Ken Paxton’s office sought data from the ​​Texas Department of Public Safety in an effort to identify transgender individuals in the state, according to a report from The Washington Post. 

The department reportedly received a request in June from the attorney general’s office regarding information on Texans who had changed their gender on their drivers licenses or in other government records within the past two years. 

An internal email reviewed by the Post described the scope of the request. “Need total number of changes from male to female and female to male for the last 24 months, broken down by month,” the Texas DPS driver license division chief wrote in a June email. “We won’t need DL/ID numbers at first but may need to have them later if we are required to manually look up documents.”

The department ultimately concluded that the data could not be “accurately produced” and did not provide any materials to the attorney general. While it’s unclear why exactly Paxton sought the information, the request itself is more than a little concerning given how the state has been doing everything it can to make life miserable for trans people.

This is really scary, this is like something China or Russia would do, it is down right troubling!

“Today’s story out of Texas is chilling,” Human Rights Campaign Legal Director Sarah Warbelow said in a statement provided to Rolling Stone. “Weaponizing state agencies and their public records to pinpoint and single out transgender Texans is terrifying, albeit not shocking. Throughout 2022, Attorney General Paxton, along with Governor Abbott, have stopped at nothing to attack the very existence of transgender youth and adults. This development shows how far they’re willing to go in discriminating against transgender people.” 
What was he going to do with the data?

Why would he be looking for the data except to persecute us?

“This is another brick building toward targeting these individuals,” said Ian Pittman, an Austin attorney who represents Texas parents of transgender children investigated by the state. “They’ve already targeted children and parents. The next step would be targeting adults. And what better way than seeing what adults had had their sex changed on their driver’s licenses?”

Alexis Salkeld Garcia, 34, of Austin, a trans woman who changed the gender listed on her driver’s license from male to female a year and a half ago, said the attorney general’s office inquiry made her feel “terrified.”

Yeah, I don't blame her for feeling terrified I also would.

It was just the number of trans people but he said that he might want names!

Paxton’s office bypassed the normal channels — DPS’s government relations and general counsel’s offices — and went straight to the driver license division staff in making the request, according to a state employee familiar with it, who said the staff was told that Paxton’s office wanted “numbers” and later would want “a list” of names, as well as “the number of people who had had a legal sex change.”

[...]

During the following two months, the employee said, the DPS staff searched its records for changes in the “sex” category of not only driver’s licenses but also state ID cards available from birth, learner’s permits issued to those age 15 and up, commercial licenses, state election certificates, and occupational licenses. The employee spoke on the condition of anonymity to avoid retaliation for describing internal state discussions.

DPS staff members compiled a list of 16,466 gender changes between June 1, 2020 and June 30, 2022, public records show. In the emails, DPS staff members repeatedly referred to the request as coming from the attorney general’s office as they discussed attempting to narrow the data to include only licenses that had been altered to reflect a court-ordered change in someone’s gender.

This is something out of the book "1984" big brother is watching you!

And was there a cover up?

Last month, The Post made a request to Paxton’s office for all records the attorney general’s office had directed other state offices to compile related to driver’s licenses in which the sex of the driver was changed, as well as related emails between Paxton’s office and other state agencies.

Officials indicated that no such records existed.

“Why would the Office of the Attorney General have gathered this information?” Assistant Attorney General June Harden wrote in an email to The Post, later adding, “Why do you believe this is the case?”

[...]

Skeen [Shelly Skeen, a Dallas-based senior attorney at Lambda Legal] called the attorney general’s inquiry into driver’s license records “a gross violation of privacy” intended to “target one group of people to fire up their base while transgender people are just trying to live their lives.”

“The constitutional issues that this raises are equal protection and due process under the 14th Amendment as well as discrimination based on sex,” Skeen said.

Big Brother is watching you!


And that isn't the only thing  the Attorney General has his thumb in.
Austin American-Statesman via USA Today
By Hogan Gore
December 14, 2022

Texas Attorney General Ken Paxton filed a lawsuit Monday targeting a federal rule that prohibits discrimination in foster care and adoption services.

Paxton's office is seeking a judgment against the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services over an Obama-era administrative rule prohibiting foster care and adoption service agencies from using federal money on programs or companies that discriminate on the basis of gender identity, sexual orientation and same-sex marriage.

Paxton argues in the suit that the federal rule, known as the Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity rule, or SOGI, does not prohibit the state from contracting with child placing agencies that are not in compliance.

"There are so many vital religious institutions in Texas and around the country that can aid in making sure foster children are protected and able to find good homes,” Paxton said Monday in a news release announcing the lawsuit. “The SOGI Rule would force them either to adopt a radical woke agenda or surrender their mission of helping children."
Why do they hate us so, we just want to live our lives.

This goes way beyond laws back in the 1950s, this is down right persecution of us.

Wednesday, December 14, 2022

Life’s A Drag!

Okay, who have been to a drag show? Raise your hand!

I have and it is not something to get into a tizzy over.

It is lip-syncing to popular songs, telling jokes or singing and showing cleavage. That’s it. There is no nudity, no simulated sex, nothing.

Drag shows have a long history in the South. Why are they drawing threats now?
USA Today via Yahoo News
By Danielle Dreilinger
December 13, 2022


[…]

Especially scary because it was one of an increasing number of drag shows, across the South and the nation, facing threats and protests — at least 126 in 2022 through mid-November, including 48 in the South, GLAAD reported. The highest number of threats were in North Carolina, followed by Texas. Legislative efforts to limit drag are underway in six states and the U.S. House.

[…]

Drag performers typically wear elaborate costumes that exaggerate traditional gender norms, and perform stylized routines — often lip-syncing to popular songs, telling jokes or singing. They may show cleavage, not unlike Dolly Parton. It’s most common to wear women’s clothing, but performers may be of any gender and wear pretty much anything — there are drag kings as well as queens, and performers who blur gender entirely. If you’ve seen the musical “Hairspray” or any of 40-plus Bugs Bunny cartoons, you’ve seen drag.

As the article goes on to say drag is nothing new, it has been around since the Roman days. Recently look at Flip Wilson, Milton Berle, Tom Hanks, and who could not forget the #1 crossdressers Corporal Klinger Jamie Farr!

But now it seems like the Republicans would like to lock them all up.

Staff at the ACLU and the Family Research Council both said they haven’t found an organized campaign to limit drag shows.

Rather, social media and conservative news outlets have buzzed over a handful of videos of drag performances with children in the audience.

Outcry over these events spurred Tennessee Senate Majority Leader Jack Johnson to file a bill that’s been characterized as banning drag. Johnson said that’s inaccurate.

The bill would limit all sexually explicit performances in areas where kids could be present, he said: “It doesn’t matter if it’s by someone who’s dressed in drag or not.” It would not affect drag shows in age-restricted venues, or people in drag marching in a parade or reading at a G-rated story hour, he said.

[…]

People like Johnson say they just want to make sure children aren’t exposed to sexual material, like parents of all stripes don’t want kids seeing online porn.

I wouldn’t be surprised if Senate Majority Leader Jack Johnson has never seen a drag show so they have this image of an orgy on stage.

Of course the Bible Thumpers are in on the act

“With the children, we’ve got a crisis. The building is on fire,” said Sharayah Colter, a member of the Conservative Baptist Network’s steering council. But underneath that, “It’s not right to be questioning the identity that God has given people when he has created them — he creates them male and female.”

From that perspective, it doesn’t matter if a drag queen is wearing an evening gown reading “Goodnight Moon”: It’s gender-bending, and it’s unacceptable.

Colter and some evangelicals believe the prevalence of LGBTQ people in the cultural discourse, including through drag, makes people, especially children, more likely to be gay or trans.

[…]

Accusations that gay people are trying to groom or convert children are familiar. They are also untrue. There is zero evidence that LGBTQ people are more likely to molest children. Science has found sexual orientation and gender identity are innate, "influenced by genetic factors," GLAAD spokeswoman Barbara Simon said.

Ding, ding, ding!

And that folks is the bottom line, “makes people, especially children, more likely to be gay or trans” and “groom or convert children” they still believe that we are not born this way but lost our path and somehow decided to be “GAY.” (That’s why they are still gun-ho on conversion therapy.)

That is the big divide between conservatives and liberals. The conservatives are still living in the 1950s when homosexuality was believed to be a choice and gender is only determined by chromosomes.

Police routinely raided those New Orleans balls. A 1972 issue of “Drag” magazine reported that four men were arrested at Memphis’ The Door lounge. The performers were booked on charges they impersonated females, and the owner for permitting men to sing, dance and kiss in dresses and wigs. “Crime is certainly rampant in Memphis!” the magazine noted, with a practically audible eye-roll.

“We were felons,” Pratt said. In the 1970s, she lost custody of her two sons because she was a lesbian. The Supreme Court didn’t overturn sodomy laws until 2003.

And that’s what they want to do is bring us back to the 1950s when father knew best, gays were in the closet, trans were locked up in jail, and Blacks knew their place. The Republican dream is to criminalize us again.

I have been to a number of drag shows and there was nothing to be embarrassed about, many of my friends are drag performers, and there is even a drag queen who on his Facebook page has “Performance artist, political Queen, psychologist in semi-retirement.”

For me drag shows are not my cup of tea and that is one of the things, if you don't want your child at a drag show don't bring them, but don't other what to do or watch.


That is one of the reasons for the book banning they want to go back to when everything was Lilly white and straight on the bookshelves.

Susan Campbell (opinion): CT Republicans fail another book report for 2nd-graders
CT Insider
December 13, 2022


To people who’ve lost sleep over it, the 5-year-old child of state Rep. Roland Lemar, D-New Haven, and Yale clinical professor of law Anika Singh Lemar has seen the children’s picture book “Julián is a Mermaid.”

More importantly, she is unscarred by it.

I have read it, too, and while the book didn’t make me reconsider my gender identity — as some critics fear the book will do — the theme of an abuela’s undying love made me smile.

Of course, there’s a backstory.

A couple of weeks ago, the Connecticut GOP shared on their official Twitter account a video that was originally posted by @LibsofTikTok, which has a nasty reputation for posting anti-LGBTQ content. The tweet included a video of a Darien mother who recently took issue with “Julián,” winner of a 2018 American Library Association’s Stonewall Book Award. By the mother’s account, the book, which she said was read to her daughter’s second-grade class, is an “inappropriate” “story of a little boy who is transitioning to a little girl.”

In fact, author Jessica Love wrote a story about a boy who wants to be a mermaid, and I’m guessing Republicans posting on Twitter didn’t read the book before sharing that tweet. After all, the outrage machine isn’t fueled by information. It runs on energy and snark. The mermaid transition could be a metaphor, I suppose, but not for most second-graders. Does anyone believe that a picture book would prompt any one to say, “Oh, wow, I’m a girl” when they’ve lived their lives as a boy? I read a lot of books about trains to my son, yet here he is, crashing toward his 40s, and he’s still not a train. As the Darien mother late said on “Fox & Friends,” while she supports the LGBTQ community and her town’s teachers, “We're talking about seven-year-old children who believe in the tooth fairy. They believe in unicorns. This is completely off their radar.”

AWK, Polly wants a cracker, AWK!

I wonder how many of these conservatives have actually read the books that want banned?

Did you read the book?
Oh we can read that, it filth!
Then how do you know it should be banned?
Fox News told me!

And that is one of the things, if you don't want your child read the book don't let them, but don't other what to do or read.

Why I Will Not Buy A Tesla

When I was looking for a car back in 2017 a Tesla was one of the cars I was thinking about but my brother’s place was just at the range limit so I crossed it off of my list.

But now I have another reason… he is a transphobic bigot.

Elon Musk Throws Transphobic Outburst After Being Booed Onstage
The richest man in the world got booed in front of thousands during an appearance at a Dave Chappelle show.
The Advocate
By Christopher Wiggins
December 12, 2022


Over the weekend, the wealthiest man in the world learned that money could buy a social media platform, but it still can’t silence critics. 

Elon Musk spent the weekend continuing to stir the proverbial pot by making controversial Twitter posts and showing up as a surprise guest at a Dave Chappelle show in San Francisco.

Neither went very well.

The new owner of Twitter continued trying to rile up his supporters and gin up controversy in his ongoing attempt to call attention to the platform that advertisers have left in droves after Musk’s acquisition.

On Saturday, Musk tweeted, “Twitter is both a social media company and a crime scene.”

He also supports the abortion ban, the ban on healthcare for trans youth, and all the other draconian laws they are passing.

Elon Musk Backs Texas Abortion Ban, Claims Governor, to No Objection
"Elon consistently tells me he likes the social policies in the state of Texas," Abbot said.
Gizmodo
By Dell Cameron
September 2, 2021


Tesla and SpaceX founder Elon Musk has “consistently” praised the “social policies” of the state of Texas during his “frequently” chats with Greg Abbott, the Texas governor said Thursday, in an interview focused on his state’s landmark abortion ban.

Abbott joined CNBC on Thursday to push back against speculation that the new law would harm the state’s business-friendly image, saying its lax regulations aren’t the only thing attracting employers.

“Candidly, not only do they like the business environment, but you need to understand there’s a lot of businesses and a lot of Americans who like the social positions that the state of Texas is taking,” Abbott said.

[…]

Pressed on whether he meant the new abortion law specifically—as well as the state’s controversial voting restrictions—are attracting new companies, Abbott said they are, adding that the policies are responsible, in fact, for “accelerating the process of businesses coming to Texas.”

The Advocate goes on to say Musk got chastised by...

Scott Kelly, who is a former NASA astronaut and twin brother of Arizona U.S. Sen. Mark Kelly, responded to Musk’s pronouns tweet, writing, “Elon, please don’t mock and promote hate toward already marginalized and at-risk-of-violence members of the #LGBTQ+ community. They are real people with real feelings. Furthermore, Dr Fauci is a dedicated public servant whose sole motivation was saving lives.

Nope, I will never buy anything from the bigot.


Update 3:00 PM

I’m not the only one!

I just found this…

Tesla is becoming a partisan brand, says survey
Electek
By Fred Lambert
December 12 2022


Tesla is becoming a partisan brand – losing the support of Democrats and gaining support from Republicans, according to a survey.

Leaders of large companies selling consumer products, like automakers and tech companies, generally refrain from showing direct support to any political party, especially in the US.

Due to the polarizing nature of politics in the US and its two-party system, it’s better to stay away from definitive statements of support one way or the other since you risk alienating large parts of the population.

That’s why it was so surprising to see Elon Musk tell his over 100 million followers on Twitter to vote Republican during the midterm elections last month and going as far as calling the Democratic Party the “party of hate.”

[…]

Jordan Marlatt, tech analyst at Morning Consult, went as far as saying that Tesla is becoming a partisan brand:

It seems like Tesla is on its way to becoming a partisan brand.

Tuesday, December 13, 2022

They Are Out There Dressed Their Paramilitary Uniforms

They are just like little boys dressed up at playing army, with the mentality to go with it but what is scary it that they are carrying assault rifles.

Transgender Americans Feel Under Siege as Political Vitriol Rises
Language about pedophiles and “grooming” of young children has intensified a movement, reminiscent of campaigns dating to the 1970s, that seeks to turn transgender people into a political wedge.
New York Times
By Maggie Astor
December 10, 2022


Alejandra Caraballo is used to seeing anti-transgender hatred.

As an L.G.B.T.Q. rights advocate and a transgender woman, she has received death threats, and her and her family members’ personal information has been published. When she goes to her favorite bar in New York, she sometimes wonders what she would do if someone came in shooting.

But last weekend, it became too much. Members of the Proud Boys and other extremist groups, many of them armed, converged outside a planned drag event in Columbus, Ohio. Neo-Nazis protested another event in Lakeland, Fla. There was an anti-L.G.B.T.Q. rally in South Florida, also attended by the Proud Boys. All of this just two weeks after the killing of five people — two of them transgender, a third gay — at an L.G.B.T.Q. club in Colorado Springs.

“I had a full panic attack and breakdown,” said Ms. Caraballo, a clinical instructor at the Cyberlaw Clinic at Harvard Law School. “It’s one thing knowing there’s this extremist hate on the internet and seeing it in the abstract, and I can kind of compartmentalize. When this hate becomes manifested in real-life violence and there’s a celebration of it, is when it becomes too much to stomach.”

I fear that politicians will be stirring up more vitriol against us. I fear that there will be more armed protests, I fear that more of us will be killed. I fear that the hate mongers are stirring up the animus against us. I fear that Twitter and other social media will fan the flames of violence.

Since far-right social media activists began attacking Boston Children’s Hospital over the summer for providing care for transgender children, the hospital has received repeated bomb threats. Doctors across the country who do similar work have been harassed. The Justice Department charged a Texas man this month with threatening a Boston doctor; it also recently charged at least two others with threatening anti-gay or anti-transgender attacks.

[…]

The rise in threats has accompanied an increasingly vitriolic political conversation.

Over the past couple of years, it has become routine for conservatives to liken transgender people and their allies to pedophiles, and to equate discussion of gender identity with “grooming” children for sexual abuse — part of an intensifying push, reminiscent of campaigns against gay rights dating back to the 1970s, to turn increasing visibility of transgender Americans into a political wedge.


They call us “groomers” but they are the ones who are grooming the children, they are the one who are teaching children to dislike those that are different from them, they are the ones who allow their children to bully others.

We have seen this before but without the violence and guns.

The false specter of child abuse has long been a way for anti-L.G.B.T.Q. campaigns to attract “people who otherwise would not join what they consider a homophobic movement,” said Eric Gonzaba, an assistant professor of American studies at California State University, Fullerton, and co-chair of the Committee on Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender History.

It gained prominence 45 years ago, when the singer Anita Bryant founded Save Our Children. Accusing gay people of “recruiting” children, the group persuaded voters in Miami-Dade County, Fla., to repeal an anti-discrimination ordinance months after it was passed. Then the movement took its case nationwide.

But now it is on steroids and they are armed!

What can you do?

Because it affects all of us, those that transitioned, those who just crossdress on weekends, those who dress in drag. You can’t just sit there and say it doesn’t affect me, you are just lying to yourself. As Harvey Milk said, 

Gay brothers and sisters, you must come out. Come out to your parents. I know that it is hard and will hurt them, but think about how they will hurt you in the voting booth! Come out to your relatives. Come out to your friends, if indeed they are your friends. Come out to your neighbors, to your fellow workers, to the people who work where you eat and shop. Come out only to the people you know, and who know you, not to anyone else. But once and for all, break down the myths. Destroy the lies and distortions. For your sake. For their sake.

Don’t be fooled it is right here in Connecticut, the Republicans talked about “parental rights” what that means to the Republicans is book banning, gagging teachers and students from talking about their lives, banning school Gay Straight Alliances (GSA). 

“I think it’s unlikely that attitudes are going to become more negative over time,” Professor Fetner said. “That hasn’t been the pattern for any discriminatory attitude.”

But short term, the effects loom large.

People tend to become more accepting when they know L.G.B.T.Q. people personally. But Lindsey Clark, the deputy director for the Human Rights Campaign’s Transgender Justice Initiative, who is transgender and nonbinary, said it was hard to ask transgender people to reach out when doing so could put them in danger.

They are already for their attack on us in Congress, Reuters wrote,

U.S. Republicans in Congress are lining up behind legislation that critics say would roll back protections for transgender people, setting a playbook for action on a divisive social issue should they take control of Congress this fall.

[…]

In the Senate, five Republicans have sponsored a version of the bill targeting medical providers, including Senators Ted Cruz, Josh Hawley and Marco Rubio.



No S*** Sherlock

We knew this but it is nice to see it in a newspaper.

Florida leaders misrepresented research before ban on gender-affirming care
PolitiFact | Experts said Florida mischaracterized a statistic linked to an academic review from 2016.
Tampa Bay Times
By Yacob Reyes PolitiFact
December 11, 2022


Behind Florida’s decision to block clinical services for transgender adolescents is a talking point — repeated by the state’s governor and top medical authorities — that most cases of gender incongruence fade over time.

The Florida Board of Medicine voted Nov. 4 to approve a rule that barred physicians from performing surgical procedures on minors to alter “primary or secondary sexual characteristics” and from prescribing them medication to suppress puberty and hormones. The rule included an exception for patients who were already receiving those treatments.

Two days later, Gov. Ron DeSantis said gender-affirming care is “an example of ideology overtaking the practice of medicine,” touting that he worked with the board to take a stand against it.

“Over 80% of the dysphoria amongst teenagers resolves itself by the time they become older,” DeSantis said during a Nov. 6 campaign event. “So why are you mutilating their body parts?”

Earlier in the year, the Florida Department of Health used the statistic as it advised against medical transitioning for minors. The department’s April memo said, “80% of those seeking clinical care will lose their desire to identify with the non-birth sex.”

This is total Bull S***!

And they know it but preferred to instead.

The 80% figure comes from a 2016 paper published in the “International Review of Psychiatry.”

[…]

Other experts mentioned concerns with the methodology of studies cited in the paper.

Kristin Dayton, a pediatric endocrinologist, said the studies had a small share of children assigned female at birth — and are thus not representative samples of the population. Eight of the 10 studies examined only children assigned male at birth.

At least six of the studies were conducted before the American Psychiatric Association developed a formal diagnosis for gender dysphoria in children. Some of the 10 studies did not include children who were referred to the studies by medical professionals.

A 1987 study, for instance, used advertisements to recruit children. Only 30% of the children examined had “frequently” stated a desire to be a girl. Experts said most of the children in that study wouldn’t have met the current criteria for gender dysphoria.

GIGO, Garbage In, Garbage Out, the study was flawed and everyone knew it but that didn’t stop these conservative doctors from doing a hatchet job on us and to make it even worst these doctors knew their policy will cause live long irrevocable harm to the children. So much for their oaths!

“The 80% statistic, used by the Florida Department of Health and the state’s leadership, is categorically false,” Meredithe McNamara, an assistant professor of pediatrics at the Yale School of Medicine, told PolitiFact. “After a close read of the scholarship cited by the state, the state’s conclusion simply cannot be drawn in good faith.”

[…]

McNamara also said that Florida’s reliance on a 2016 paper is a “glaring problem,” because the state neglected to consider about six years of new research.

A study published in July, for instance, sought to develop an estimate of transgender children who later stop identifying with a gender incongruent with their assigned sex.

It evaluated 300 transgender children over five years. To participate in the study, children must have already begun social transitioning, which often involves changing names, haircuts and pronouns.

Researchers from Princeton University’s TransYouth Project followed up with participants in-person and online. At the end of the five years, 94% of participants still identified as transgender.

This is nothing more than a pogrom against the most vulnerable children generated by conservative Republicans for political gains not based on any legitimate research but is nothing more than political hatchet job.

Monday, December 12, 2022

Political Speech? Wait A Minute.

The rainbow?

The HRC equal sticker?

‘Political Speech’ in the Classroom: Pride Flags & ‘Safe Space’ Stickers?
In Nebraska, students, teachers and a state senator seek clarity on district policy
Nebraska Examiner
By Aaron Sanderford
December 10, 2022


Some local parents and students consider a pride flag or “safe space” stickers displayed in a handful of Omaha suburban high school classrooms as inappropriately political.

But these symbols aren’t political to local LGBTQ students. To them, these handheld flags, stickers and supportive posters help them feel accepted and safe.

That is why a first-year Millard North High School principal’s meeting with teachers last month and discussion of the district’s ban on political posters and items is causing a stir.

[…]

Randels and Connor said people who haven’t been discriminated against because of who they are don’t understand the value of tokens of visual support.

“They give me the peace of mind to know that, at least within that classroom, I have a safe space and an adult who I can trust and talk to about issues that might be going on,” Randels said.

I want to know which party the Pride flag represents?

The posters urged those who read them to ask the principal why he did not support LGBTQ+ kids. Connor said Bearinger seemed upset about being labeled that way. She said she chafed when he asked her if he should allow someone to put up NRA stickers.

Conner said she disagreed with the comparison. Straight kids don’t have the same risk of suicide and are bullied less often than LGBTQ kids, she said.

I believe that they are comparing apples to oranges. An NRA sticker represents a company while a rainbow flag represents a community.

The school board replies…

Millard Public Schools spokeswoman Rebecca Kleeman confirmed Thursday that the district has “no policies preventing flags, stickers or other symbols.”

She said what happened at Millard North may have been a misunderstanding. The district has a non-discrimination policy that includes sexual orientation and gender identity.

“There was a conversation at Millard North with faculty — and these are conversations at all of our schools — and I think that was misinterpreted,” Kleeman said.

Well put them back up again!

Wow! Guess Who Just Detransition?

This is a surprise, I met Beck one time and in a way I am not too surprised. Beck could not integrate in to society and was constantly being harassed.

Retired Navy SEAL made famous after coming out as trans announces detransition: 'destroyed my life'
'I destroyed my life. I'm not a victim. I did this to myself, but I had help,' the retired Navy SEAL said
Fox News
By Emma Colton
December 11, 2022


A retired Navy SEAL who became famous nearly 10 years ago after coming out as transgender announced he is detransitioning and called on Americans to "wake up" about how transgender health services are hurting children. 

"Everything you see on CNN with my face, do not even believe a word of it," Chris Beck, formerly known as Kristin Beck, told conservative influencer Robby Starbuck in an interview published earlier this month. "Everything that happened to me for the last ten years destroyed my life. I destroyed my life. I'm not a victim. I did this to myself, but I had help."

"I take full responsibility," he continued. "I went on CNN and everything else, and that’s why I’m here right now, I’m trying to correct that."

[…]

"I was used … I was very naive, I was in a really bad way, and I got taken advantage of. I got propagandized. I got used badly by a lot of people who had knowledge way beyond me. They knew what they were doing. I didn’t," he said during the interview.

Of course Fox is milking this for all they can.

"Does this seem right," he asked. "This is why I am trying to tell America to wake up."

Beck said he has been off of hormones for about seven years now. 

I don't know the reason or reasons that Beck decided to detransition it could be because Beck decided that he is not trans, it could be because of discrimination, political, religious, social or family pressure. We just don't know so anything else would be speculation.

Beck was here in Hartford back in 2015 for the showing of the movie “Lady Valor” at the Connecticut LGBTQ Film Festival and I was invited to go to brunch with Beck.

Sunday, December 11, 2022

Singing Kumbaya?

 As many of you know I am on the Governor’s Hate Crime Advisory Council, at one meeting we had two guests.

Ted Hakey Jr. and mosque leader Zahir Mannan were our guests for that meeting.

What brought them together was mister Hakey fired 30 shots into the Ahmadiyya Baitul Aman Mosque on Main Street in Meriden with a high-powered rifle.

It could have been disastrous and made notional headlines instead it made two friends.

We were discussing at the meeting Restorative Justice which is something conservatives dislike with a passion to say the least. VOX reported,

Far-left Democrats in our school district made this shooting possible, because they implemented something they called “restorative justice.” This policy — which really just blames teachers for students’ failures — puts kids and teachers at risk, and makes shootings more likely. But it was billed as a pioneering approach to discipline and safety.

I was just fine with the old approach to discipline and safety — it was called discipline and safety. But the Obama-Biden administration took Parkland’s bad policies and forced them into schools across America.

Wikipedia (Yeah, I know it is Wikipedia but they have the best non rambling definition) defines Restorative Justice as,

Restorative justice is an approach to justice where one of the responses to a crime is to organize a meeting between the victim and the offender, sometimes with representatives of the wider community. The goal is for them to share their experience of what happened, to discuss who was harmed by the crime and how, and to create a consensus for what the offender can do to repair the harm from the offense. This may include a payment of money given from the offender to the victim, apologies and other amends, and other actions to compensate those affected and to prevent the offender from causing future harm.

This is not the first time I have heard about Restorative Justice, about ten years ago on was on the Safe School Coalition Committee run by the CT Department of Education and we were talking about ways to stop bullying in schools, what worked and what didn’t.

A couple of school districts down in southwestern Connecticut used Restorative Justice approach. At a neutral school if both parties agreed they sat down together to discuss the incident, and they had excellent results.

Despite Republican propaganda both parties must agree to the talks, instead of the Republican philosophy of “lock them up and throw away the key.”

Mosque leader Zahir Mannan agreed to Restorative Justice and sat down with Ted Hakey Jr. and now they go around talking about overcoming hate. NBC Connecticut reported,

Zahir Mannan, one of the leaders of the mosque, said those bullets didn't just pierce walls. They also shot fear through the heart of the Ahmadiyya community. This sect of Islam is made up by the only group of Muslims who share one particular belief.

"That belief in itself, believing that Mirza Ghulam Ahmad was the Messiah, has made us the subject of persecution all over the world, but not here in America," Mannan said.

Hakey said his former understanding of Islam came from what he read online. He said Twitter, Facebook and other social media platforms not only led to his hatred of Islam but also fueled it.

"What you see on social media sites," Hakey said. "That was my education of Islam."

Hakey's life would change forever when he requested to sit down with the mosque leaders to apologize before his sentencing.

"This huge bodybuilder-type guy comes in and to see tears coming down his face and red cheeks, it humbled us as well," Mannan said. "It was a genuine connection that you can't fabricate."

Hakey said the conversation changed his attitude.

"If they handed this in any other way," he said, "I would've went to prison angry. I would've came out and I would've been just as angry."

That is the thing with “lock them up and throw away the key.” all it does is to radicalize and they would be just as angry or even more angry when they come out. While Restorative Justice has a chance of changing their behavior, it is not perfect and it is not for everyone but for many it works Hakey and Mannan go around the state to talk to anyone that will listen.

In an article on News Sincerity they write,

Before his sentencing, he asked to meet the mosque leaders to apologize. Their willingness to meet him without negative judgment and their willingness to listen completely shifted Hakey’s perspective on this community he, up until then, knew almost nothing about.

Mannan visited Hakey every other week in prison and even gifted Hakey his grandfather’s Quran. Now released, Hakey enjoys reading about Islam and having discussions with Mannan about it.

And this leads me to why I wrote this.

This morning on CBS Sunday Morning they had this segment…

The bottom line… the recidivism rate or the percentage of convicted felons returning to jail have been showing a slight improvement over the years. We might not be singing kumbaya together but we are heading towards it.