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Wednesday, July 05, 2023

It Is Never Easy…

And it is even harder when you are in the public spotlight!

Former YouTuber and ‘Glamorous’ star Miss Benny comes out as transgender
Miss Benny's transition inspired her "Glamorous" storyline.
NBC Today
By Elena Nicolaou
June 26, 2023

Former YouTube creator and "Glamorous" star Miss Benny came out as transgender in an essay for Time.

Miss Benny, in the essay, says she has been "privately living" as a transgender woman "for the last few years."

“I’m a proud person, but admittedly it’s still a bit daunting to say those words publicly," she wrote in the essay. "Let’s just say I’m one of those girls who grew up in a religious Texas household where queerness was totally not the vibe.”

[…]

In the essay, Miss Benny explained how her gender identity affected her career path — which began with moving to Los Angeles at 14 to "get out of Texas," "establish (her) own identity," and "make a career as an actor."

Instead, she says she "endured rejection" in auditions and "entered relationships where my femininity was subject for negotiation." The effect was "learning to quiet the colorful parts of (herself)."

There is no easy way to come out but it is even harder if you are in the public spotlight.

Look at Chaz Bono, Jamie Lee Curtis daughter Ruby, and Warren Beatty son Stephen, they all were in the spotlight making there transition hard. But one thing that helped them… parental support!

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joannaS7/6/23, 7:29 AM
Coming out is not for the faint of heart
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